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Violence > Safety Plan
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| A safety plan will help you identify possible ways to protect yourself
and your children. The plan will make you more aware of your personal and
community resources. Also, it will help you to identify the signs and
situations that may precede a violent episode.
Violence repeats itself and gets worse. For your safety, it is best for
you to have a plan to get to a safe place if you anticipate or experience
your partner's violence again.
You are not powerless or locked into a battering relationship. You can
prepare to leave, and be ready to set out on your own at the right time.
Victims who are in physically abusive relationships often find it
difficult to leave home and end the relationship permanently. If you are
unable to leave at this time, you can still protect yourself by doing
certain things that will make it easier for you to leave later.
Put these things together in a place where you can reach them quickly.
You may think about leaving some of these items at a friend's, neighbor's
or relative’s house, at work, anyplace that you will be safe when it is
time to retrieve the items when they are needed.
- When you leave, be sure to take the following important items if you
have them:
 | Driver’s license |
| Medication(s) |
| Keys |
| Address book |
| Telephone/utility bills |
| Bank book |
| Green cards |
| Car ownership papers |
| Insurance papers |
| Lease/rental |
| Property deed |
| Medical records |
| Money |
| Checkbook |
| Children’s school records |
| Marriage license |
| Birth certificates |
| Credit cards |
| Social security cards |
| Divorce and custody papers |
| Passports |
| Jewelry |
| Pictures |
Try to get a joint bank account or an account in your own name
Hide an extra set of cars keys outside or at a neighbor's house.
Plan where you will go, and how you will get there in case you have to
leave suddenly.
Pack an extra set of clothing for yourself and your children. Store
these items with a neighbor, friend, or family member - someplace
where you can get them safely if needed.
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